Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Do what you LOVE or WORK towards it

Have you ever heard or felt the Sunday Evening Depression (Just google "Sunday evening de.." ? It's also known as "Sunday Night blues" for school going kids who are anxious for the week ahead in school. For adults, its the work week. The 5 days of work bring a lot of anxiety, but should you feel the anxiety ? Didn't we take the job at will? Nobody forced us to take the job as kids are forced to go to school.

It may sound like a repeated advice, "Find your dream job" or "Chase your dreams". Practically speaking, its not possible for most of us to pursue our dreams, either due to responsibilities or student loan/credit card debt. Spending 5 days a week, 260 days a year or approximately 72 % of your work life doing something we don't like can lead to a lots of frustration and stress.

Why do i care to tell you about this? I am going to share my experience about meeting somebody who made me realize that sometimes you take steps that bring unhappiness to yourself but help us achieve what we want. When i was talking to him, i did not realize that he was divorced and had a son. He loved to spend a lot of time with his son (Who wouldn't ??) and his current job did not give him enough time to hang out with his son. He said, i do this job so that he would have to never say no to his son to go for a football game. He plans to quit and chase his dream when his son is off to college.

What did i learn from him ?? Do what you LOVE or WORK towards it